Author Archives: Amy Barnes

What’s on Your Bucket List?

What are the things you most want,  the experiences you most want to have and the people you most want to do them with?  This spring I’m taking a trip to Sitka, Alaska and I will eat fresh wild Alaskan Salmon with friends while sitting on the Alaskan Coast.  yes, that’s an item on my [...]

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Valuing and Resolving Conflict in Relationships

Conflict is neither good nor bad.  Conflict is a necessary part of life.  How we choose to resolve conflict can either clarify points of view and draw us closer or conflict can destroy relationships or businesses or even lives and pull us further apart.  Learning and practicing healthy way of dealing with conflict can make [...]

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Value the Differences in Relationship!

How are you alike and how are you different from your spouse and/or your business partner?  Recognizing and honoring these differences could spell success or failure for either your relationship , your business or both. 1. What unique gifts and talent do you each bring to your relationship and to the business? One of you may [...]

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Are You Breathing?

Of course you say.  We take our breathing for granted.  Just for this moment notice your breath.  Are you holding you breath?  Are you breathing hard or shallow or a nice deep belly breath.  We can make ourselves feel stressed or relaxed,  even healthy or unhealthy, or tired or energetic just by the way we [...]

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Trust Your Gut

Using Your Internal GPS System Do you make decisions with your heart or with your head?  As business people we’ve been taught to look at the data, to make rational decisions.  after all I was a math major and I totally bought into making decisions based on data, on the facts and then I was [...]

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Roots and Wings

In a few days, my youngest child, a recent college graduate, moves to Alaska for her first full time job. She is ready for a grand and glorious adventure. She has roots and wings. For years, much of my sense of purpose and meaning has come from being a Mom I and a really good [...]

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What Programs Are You Running? – Examining Your Core Beliefs

Just as a computer has programs running in the background we each have programs running in the background of our minds. Some are quite useful. We don’t have to remember to breathe, or how to drive a car or how to read. We do those things automatically, on autopilot.  We also carry a number of [...]

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Thrive in Your Zone of Genius

It is time for you to thrive not just survive! What are you passionate about? I love to see the sparkle in people’s eyes,  hear the excitement in their voice and notice the surge of energy,  that something special that comes through loud and clear when people talk about their passions.  Recently I talked with [...]

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The Value of Being Fully Authentic and Fully Yourself

Sometimes we hit a bump in the road, such as the loss of a job or a promotion or our relationships become rocky and we are no longer sure of ourselves.  We may have tried hard to fit in and please others instead of having the courage to fully be ourselves.  Is it okay to [...]

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Is Your Fear Real?

Has fear ever stopped you or gotten in the way of accomplishing something or creating what you most want in your life? If your fear keeps you stuck,

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Freedom, Fearful or Empowered?

Happy July 4th!  We celebrate freedom. We celebrate our country.  Many people have dedicated their lives to making our country great.  They had big ideas.  Cross continental railroads,  an interstate system, education for all in a public school system, libraries,  a chicken in every pot,  equality for all people, even letting women and “blacks” vote.  [...]

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Heartfelt Appreciation Rocks!

Remember the last time someone gave you the gift of genuine heartfelt appreciation? How did you feel? Giving and receiving appreciation changes the way we look at the world, how we feel and even how we think. We know that the person receiving appreciation, the person giving the appreciation and even bystanders all feel better!

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Should I Go or Should I Stay?

Is your marriage or relationship worth saving or is it time to call it quits and move on?  This is such a big question with no one size fits all answer.  As a marriage and family therapist and a relationship coach my preference is to make marriages work.  Generally if both individuals are fully committed [...]

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Seven Tips for Authentic Communication

In each of our relationships we bring ourselves.  We are the common factor whether the relationship is with a loved one, coworker, client or friend.  How we choose to communicate says much more about us than what we say about the other people.  Communicating authentically is the opposite of defending or needing to keep ourselves [...]

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Living a Life of Courageous Creativity:   From Financial Manager to Designer

Taking a leap of faith from investments to fashion design for Stephanie Williams was a wonderful transformative experience.   With faith in herself, work she loves and a happy marriage and home life, Stephanie models a life of Courageous Creativity.   Courageous Creativity is having the courage to fully be yourself, to create what you [...]

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Now is the Time: Get Out of Your Comfort Zone and Live Your Best Life

Do you have the courage to totally turn your life around? Are you willing to change what you do for a living, where you live, and your relationships? Most of us live our lives inside comfortable bubbles, otherwise known as our comfort zones. In our comfort zones, life may be okay… but not great. It [...]

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Courageous Creativity: The Courage to Follow Your Passion

What is your Zone of Genius? Doing work you love, where the times passes quickly, are you excited about how you spent your day and can hardly wait to get up in the morning to do it again. We tend to get stuck doing the same thing day in and day out whether we like [...]

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Are You Interested or Committed?

How do you decide if you are interested or committed? When I’m interested. I do something if I feel like it. When I am committed I do something whether or not I feel like it. Commitment allows for the possibility of transformation. My actions that today determine my future. Even as I write I have [...]

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Do You Have the Courage to Create the Life You Want?

by Amy Barnes, MBA MA LMHC What do you most love to do? Can you make money at it? Probably like most of us you were told NO. Work is work and it should be hard and difficult and no fun. Does that sound familiar? Or are you one of the few that gets paid [...]

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Courageous Creativity: The Courage to Be Fully Yourself

Rhonda Mills incorporates her gifts for movement, dance and spirituality in all she does. Fourteen years ago Rhonda deliberately set out on a journey to fully be herself. As a Yoga Teacher, Coach, and Playshop leader, Rhonda exemplifies being a person of Courageous Creativity. Courageous Creativity is having the courage to fully be yourself, to [...]

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